By “much younger women” I’m usually talking about VYW, which I define as women between the age of 18 and 23.There are three types of VYW: By “older men” I’m talking about men between the ages of 30 and 49 or so, though men in their 50s who have followed my advice and taken care of themselves physically certainly apply also.The good news is that the world is filled with super hot Type 2s and Type 3s, and I’m talking about what most men would consider 9s and 10s. Whenever I go out on a first date with a VYW, not only do I the older man aspect.These women will be more than happy to sleep with a much older man. I know that since she’s agreed to a date with me, she’s not a Type 1, so she’s either a Type 2 (in which case fast sex will be very easy as long as I don’t majorly screw anything up) or a Type 3 (in which case my odds are a little lower and a little more comfort-building time will be required).Younger women, even Type 2s, are hypersensitive about creepy older men, as well they should be (for their own safety reasons).Instead of being a creepy older guy, you need to be a confident, especially if you’re talking over texts, online, or in a public place, and/or if you have not established clear rapport yet. I see way too many older guys who do have chances with younger women completely blow it by being too creepy, too verbally sexual, way too fast.…except older guys trying to hit up much younger women. If you’re older and she’s much younger, you need to be non-creepy.
(Since men hitting up women within one to nine years younger is considered “normal” by society in most cases.) So in a way, a 45 year old man working with a 26 year old woman would apply here, even though she’s technically not a VYW.
Being fat, or having hair grow out of the side of your neck, or dressing in styles that were outdated 20 years ago might be perfectly okay for provider-hunting women your age, but it won’t be okay for the younger ones.
You take care of your physical appearance more than you did when you were a younger dude. I’ve made numerous posts about this lately, so click around this blog and take a look at a few if you have not read them yet. This does not mean you need to look like George Clooney.
Instead of talking about what to do to attract and date much younger women, something I’ve talked about before, today I’ll discuss what to do.
Definitions As usual, we need to get our definitions straight.